You’ve probably seen the people who come to the sites like this one bragging about what ‘gifts’ they have, clairvoyance, clairaudience etc.  Unfortunately their greatest gift if egoism.  Then there are the ones who say ‘I wish I could be like you, I have no gifts’.  If only they would stop and think.  I’ve seen those self same people giving comfort to someone in need, listening to their problems, and giving them gentle advice.  Are these not gifts also?  The ones with the ego’s probably wouldn’t even give you the time of day.  They would be the ones who would cross to the other side of the road, they have too many important things to do.  The ones who have nothing?  They probably have the greatest gifts of all, the gift of love, and the gift of compassion. THEY are the ones would stop and help, THEY are the ones who will listen and THEY are the ones who will be remembered.  Would you prefer people to say ‘I miss good old Fred’ or are you to be remembered as ‘what happened to what's-his-name’.  The choice is yours.