We of the spirit world welcome you.  You should learn to cherish your loved ones instead of casting them aside when they become a burden.  Look after them in their old age as they have much wisdom that they can pass on to the younger generation.  Even in senility they have sparks of genius to give. Donít treat them like so much baggage that has fulfilled its usefulness and now needs putting away.  They brought you into this world, they loved and nurtured you, now it is your turn to return that love and kindness.  Do not let them fade into obscurity for even in the spirit world they still have love for you.  Make their twilight hours memorable ones, not just for them but for you also.  God be with you.